The following is an excerpt from a post over at the Art of Manliness (AoM, a site that I love).
How great is this quote “Keep your eyes wide open before marriage; half closed afterwards”
Before you make the momentous decision, you would do well to ponder the questions in this chapter. Obviously, you will not be objective; but it is of the utmost importance that you make the effort. To compensate for your prejudice, be extra hard in judging her…

